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How To Crack The Communication Code and End Misunderstandings in Your Marriage*

Learn my key communication skills that I teach all my couples and begin the healing journey in your marriage

*currently on sale!

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Married or not, this course is designed to help you improve your communication in all your relationships.

What's included?

My step-by-step process to break through years of misunderstandings and transform how you and your partner communicate (so you can finally feel seen, heard, and deeply connected).

A complete guide to uncovering the 4 levels of communication that most couples overlook (including the exact methods I used to save my own marriage, not once, but twice!).

My tried-and-true tools and techniques to stop assumptions, end surface-level conflicts, and create meaningful conversations (proven to work even if you’ve struggled for years to “fix” your communication).

Simple yet powerful exercises to help you identify and rewrite the subconscious stories holding your relationship back (so you can stop feeling stuck and start seeing real change fast).

Lifetime access to my entire system, so you can revisit these teachings anytime to “sharpen the saw” and keep growing your connection (because real transformation takes persistence and practice).

My step-by-step process to break through years of misunderstandings and transform how you and your partner communicate (so you can finally feel seen, heard, and deeply connected).

A complete guide to uncovering the 4 levels of communication that most couples overlook (including the exact methods I used to save my own marriage, not once, but twice!).

My tried-and-true tools and techniques to stop assumptions, end surface-level conflicts, and create meaningful conversations (proven to work even if you’ve struggled for years to “fix” your communication).

Simple yet powerful exercises to help you identify and rewrite the subconscious stories holding your relationship back (so you can stop feeling stuck and start seeing real change fast).

Lifetime access to my entire system, so you can revisit these teachings anytime to “sharpen the saw” and keep growing your connection (because real transformation takes persistence and practice).

Regular Price: $497

Today Price: $197*

*currently on sale!

Success stories:

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Jennifer Noblado

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Charlotte Kaneko

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Bryan Jordan

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Pati Hoyt

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Janette M.

But what if my spouse doesn’t want to do the work with me? Will this still work?

Yes!! I actually specialize in working with one partner to transform the relationship. All of these communication tools and tips inside of this course can help you no matter the willingness of the other person. I used this same process to save my own marriage when my husband was going through his dark night of the soul and said that he no longer wanted to be with me.

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Claire Niibu-Akau

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Moana Masaniai

FAQs

Who is this course for?

This course is for anyone who feels stuck in patterns of miscommunication or misunderstanding in their marriage. Whether you’re on the brink of divorce or simply struggling to connect with your partner on a deeper level, this course will give you the tools to create meaningful change. It’s especially designed for individuals or couples who are ready to take ownership of their growth and learn a fresh, proven approach to communication and connection.

What if my partner isn’t interested in improving our communication? Will this still work for me?

Absolutely! This course is designed to work even if only one partner is willing to start the process. By focusing on your own growth and applying the tools and strategies taught in the course, you can shift the dynamic in your marriage. When you change how you show up, it naturally influences your partner and the relationship as a whole. You don’t need both partners to begin the transformation—your efforts alone can make a significant difference.

How much time will I need to dedicate to this course?

The course is designed to fit into even the busiest schedules. With 20 concise video lessons averaging 5–10 minutes each, you can progress at your own pace. You can choose to dedicate as little as 15–30 minutes a week to start seeing results. The tools and exercises are simple to apply in your daily life, so you can begin making changes without feeling overwhelmed. Plus, you’ll have lifetime access to revisit the lessons whenever you need.

I’ve tried other communication courses or marriage counseling before—how is this different?

This course goes beyond surface-level communication techniques and addresses the deeper issues that often create misunderstandings in a marriage. Unlike traditional approaches, it focuses on the 4 levels of communication. By helping you understand your triggers, rewrite subconscious stories, and align your energy, this course offers a unique framework for lasting change. It’s also designed for individuals to make impactful shifts on their own, even if their partner isn’t fully involved.

Will this course help us with specific issues like infidelity, financial stress, or parenting conflicts?

While this course isn’t designed to address specific issues like infidelity, financial stress, or parenting conflicts directly, it focuses on transforming the way you and your partner communicate and connect. By improving your communication and understanding, you’ll be better equipped to navigate these challenges together. If you’re looking for more personalized support to work through these specific issues, I also offer group and individual coaching programs that may be a better fit for your needs. Book a free consultation with me to see if a higher level of support might be right for you.

https://calendly.com/thegemms/marriage-mindshift-consultation

Are the tools and strategies in this course easy to apply in real-life situations?

Yes! The tools and strategies in this course are designed to be actionable and practical for real-life situations. While they may require effort and practice to master, they are presented in a way that allows you to begin using them right away. Whether you’re tackling long-standing issues or everyday challenges, the lessons provide clear steps to help you create meaningful change in your communication.

Is this course only for couples who are on the brink of divorce, or can it help a marriage that’s just struggling a little?

This course is for anyone who wants to improve communication and connection in their marriage, whether you’re on the brink of divorce or simply feeling stuck in frustrating patterns. If your relationship feels strained or you’ve noticed communication challenges creeping in, this course will give you the tools to address them before they grow into bigger issues. Plus, the strategies you’ll learn can be applied to any relationship—not just romantic ones—helping you create better connections with family, friends, and beyond.

Can I revisit the lessons if I need to? How long do I have access to the course materials?

Yes, you’ll have lifetime access to all the course materials! This means you can revisit the lessons as many times as you need, whenever you want. Personal growth is an ongoing process, and having the ability to refresh your knowledge and reinforce what you’ve learned is a key part of creating lasting change in your communication and relationships.

What kind of results can I expect, and how quickly will I see a difference in my marriage?

The results will depend on your level of commitment and consistency in applying the tools and strategies you’ll learn in this course. Many participants notice subtle shifts in how they communicate and connect with their partner within the first few weeks. Over time, these shifts compound into deeper understanding, reduced conflict, and a stronger connection. While this isn’t a quick fix, the more you practice what you’ve learned, the greater the transformation you’ll experience.

And if you would love much quicker results, I highly recommend finding support for your journey. It doesn’t need to be me but having someone walk you through this transformation process will lead to much quicker results. If you want to chat with me to see what type of support might be best for you, book a FREE consultation with me:

https://calendly.com/thegemms/marriage-mindshift-consultation

Do I need any prior knowledge or experience to take this course?

No prior knowledge or experience is needed to take this course! It’s designed to meet you exactly where you are, whether you’re new to working on communication or have already explored other resources. The course provides clear guidance and actionable strategies that you can start applying right away, regardless of your starting point.

Will this course work if my partner and I have very different communication styles?

Yes! This course is designed to help you navigate and bridge differences in communication styles. Instead of focusing on changing your partner, it teaches you how to understand and adapt to their style while also expressing yourself effectively. By building awareness and practicing the tools provided, you’ll be able to create a stronger connection regardless of how different your styles may be.

Does this course include any one-on-one support or live coaching?

This course is self-paced and does not include one-on-one support or live coaching. However, if you’re looking for more personalized guidance, I offer additional coaching options, including group and individual sessions. These can complement what you learn in the course and help you dive deeper into specific challenges or areas of growth. Book a FREE consultation with me to see which level of support is best for you:

https://calendly.com/thegemms/marriage-mindshift-consultation

How do I know if this course is the right investment for my marriage?

If you’re feeling stuck in patterns of miscommunication, frustration, or disconnection in your marriage, this course is designed for you. It provides practical tools, fresh insights, and a proven process to help you create real change. If you’re ready to take ownership of your growth and invest in a stronger, more connected relationship, this course is the next step. The fact that you’re considering it already shows your commitment to improving your marriage—and that’s the most important starting point.

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Please note: Due to the digital nature of this these products, we do not offer refunds.

I cracked the communication code in order to save my marriage and break the toxic generational patterns in my family.

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But this is my why. Yours might be different. Why do you want to crack the communication code?

If you could have better communication in your marriage, what would you be able to do, be or have?

Would you create the kind of relationship where you feel seen, heard, and deeply understood by your partner every day?

Would you create a foundation of trust and love that strengthens your marriage and inspires deeper connections with those closest to you?

Would you approach challenges with confidence, knowing how to express your thoughts and feelings in a way that others truly understand?

Would you finally break free from the exhausting cycles of conflict and build a marriage where you can grow old together with love and ease?

Would you build a marriage that thrives on mutual respect, deep connection, and a shared vision for your future?

Ok, and then what would you do?


Would you start that passion project or business you’ve always support and confidence to succeed?

Would you mend relationships with family or friends, creating deeper connections across every area of your life?

Would you take bold steps toward new opportunities—like advancing your career, going back to school, or pursuing a lifelong goal?

Would you build a legacy of love and growth that transforms not just your family, but everyone who’s touched by your journey?

There’s too much you’re missing out on by not being able to clearly communicate in your relationships, come join us.

Just fill out your info below to get everything listed on this page! ↓

I cracked the communication code in order to save my marriage and break the toxic generational patterns in my family.

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But this is my why. Yours might be different. Why do you want to crack the communication code?

If you could have better communication in your marriage, what would you be able to do, be or have?

✅ Would you create the kind of relationship

where you feel seen, heard, and deeply understood by your partner everyday?

✅ Would you create a foundation of

trust and love that strengthens your marriage and inspires deeper connections with those closest to you?

✅ Would you approach challenges with

confidence, knowing how to express your thoughts and feelings in a way that others truly understand?

✅ Would you finally break free from the

exhausting cycles of conflict and build a marriage where you can grow old together with love and ease?

✅ Would you build a marriage that thrives

on mutual respect, deep connection, and a shared vision for your future?

Ok, and then what would you do?

Would you start that passion project

or business you’ve always dreamed of, knowing you have the support and confidence to succeed?

Would you mend relationships with

family or friends, creating deeper connections across every area of your life?

Would you take bold steps toward new

opportunities—like advancing your career, going back to school, or pursuing a lifelong goal?

Would you build a legacy of love and

growth that transforms not just your family, but everyone who’s touched by your journey?

There’s too much you’re missing out on by not being able to clearly communicate in your relationships, come join us.

Just fill out your info below to get everything listed on this page! ↓

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